Why do I have this urge to see women pee?
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Hi,
I am virgin guy. From my childhood, I used to peep to see women while pissing and then jerk off fantasizing about the act. I love to watch from behind when a woman is pissing – the way they lift up the saree and sit and pee – this arouses me very much.
Once, I was caught by my neighbours while watching them pissing in an open area of their backyard but they remained silent without quarrel. They never pissed openly again. I love to watch them when they lift the saree and show ass cheeks and the sound while pissing excites me and then when they wash their pussy.
I know it is wrong to watch but I can’t able control myself. Please help me to overcome this habit.
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What you have described is a Fetish. There is no way to really explain the actual psychology behind any fetish. What is normal to one is abnormal to another. I will not call you a pervert, but you can be in trouble with the law if you are caught in the act of deliberately spying on a woman who is peeing.
Urolagnia, also called urophilia, undinism, golden shower and watersports is a form of fetish in which sexual excitement is associated with the sight or thought of urine or urination. What you are enjoying is the voyeuristic part of it which would be seeing another urinate without the person’s knowledge either through video taping by a hidden camera, or by lurking in locations where people are urinating or are likely to have an urge to urinate.
There would be many married men who have never observed their wife’s peeing, even though they have seen the vagina and regularly have sex. This is because peeing is considered a private affair. Maybe when you are married you will not have the same fetish. You probably now like the idea of the girl not knowing that you are watching, or the idea of getting caught watching.
Curiosity is something innate to all of us and since you rarely see a woman peeing in public the idea excites you. Men are physical/visual creatures, and so are excited by physical traits and visual displays. Peeing is a very intimate act and not something that most people are privvy to watching. So for some men this is an exciting, intoxicating event. Also, because men ejaculate, they associate bodily fluids leaving the body as something that is erotic.
So, understand that you have a fetish. But do not get into trouble because of this.
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This is not an unusual fetish. To give it its proper definition, this is urolagnia as watersports, or golden showers. Some people are just fascinated to watch women urinating, while some like the woman to urinate over them, and some take it even further, by having the woman urinate in their mouth, drinking piss. None of this is either unusual, nor is it harmful, as long as the person urinating is healthy. Many couples enjoy doing this with each other during their normal sex play.
As a virgin, you haven’t had sex with anyone so far, and I suspect that when you do start having sex, you will wish to watch your partner urinating. Whether she will agree to this or not is really down to her attitude towards a little bit of kinky but harmless fun. These kind of activities, when shared, can provide a huge amount of additional pleasure for both of you. It’s just a question of finding the right girl.
As far as your voyeurism is concerned, you do have to be careful, as it could lead you into trouble. Just because you get a thrill from watching girls urinating, it doesn’t mean to say that you have a right to spy on others. If you get caught, don’t be too surprised if you finish up getting a black eye, or a much more serious beating isn’t beyond question. People take exception to being spied upon, and it can have consequences which may even include legal action.
There is no shortage of water sports erotica on the Internet, and I’m sure that you can find plenty of porn that caters for this particular taste in a matter of minutes, with a bit of searching. I suggest you look online, and then you can spend as much time as you like wanking while watching girls peeing, or doing anything else that excites you. However, if you want to indulge this particular fetish, I suggestt you find a girlfriend, and you won’t do that either locked up in your bedroom watching porn, or sneaking around and spying on girls. So get out there and start meeting people.