Why is my interest in gay Sex growing?
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I read an article on gay sex and bisexuality and since then I am getting attracted to men and women both. However I am getting more interested in en.
I do have sex with my wife. I contacted many men on the Net and they gave their number but none of them are ready to meet and speak on phone. They just chat on whatsapp and ask to send nude photos.
I am pure top, most of them are ready to get fucked only. Now, I enjoy more gay sex on net. I want to have sex with men who are like me decent, educated and working. Most of the Gays say they do not have place and they are looking for person with space.
I feel they are just wasting time on net. I am surprised to see that so many male and females have sex with their family members, maids, servants even aged persons.
It seems that they are only fantasy.
Can any one answer my queries and help me to go forward
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It seems that the people you found on net are just need your attention and some fun on the net but not interested in a real thing so stop wasting your time after them as they are not going to give you want or you desire from them. However, you should not come to any conclusion that you like men more than women as you do not have any real experience with the men so what you like is the idea of being with the men as you have read so many materials on gay sex so your curiosity makes you attract towards them.
Stop reading those articles about gay sex as that would make your sex life with your wife ruin and it would be cheating on your wife as you do not have a right to make her suffer on your account. You are in married life so it is your responsibility to stay loyal to your wife.
If you have sex with your wife then it means you are not gay and there is no confirmation that you are bisexual too as you have not had sex with any man so stop harboring the idea of gay sex. You stay focused on your married life and only have sex with your wife as that is the best thing in the married life to do. Do not follow stories on the net as most of the stories are fake one or far from the reality. Use your mind and take a sensitive decision keeping all the pros and cons in the mind.
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The question you have asked is a complex issue.
You are confused about this because you think you are gay or at least bi since you are hooking up with other men. But there could be an explanation. You may not be attracted to the men, per se, but are attracted to the quick and easy sex that doesn’t involve social skills or getting to know one another.
You may have reached the stage where you want to experiment with gay sex. You find that this is an opportunity for sexual release and can engage in more kinky and fetish type sexual acts that you cannot readily find in your wife or other women.
You may also be thinking that gay sex is not really cheating as it is sex with another man and not a woman.
As you have mentioned, you have desire for sex which may be more than what your wife has, so you find gay encounters easy to meet your sex demands.
You need to be careful of your meeting unknown men on the Internet for Gay sex. One should always go by references to avoid an unpleasant experience. Just imagine what will happen if you are blackmailed. Your whole world will collapse.