Wife not excited when clitoris is sucked. why?
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My wife is not much excited by sucking clitoris, but gets much pleasure when her nipples are sucked hard. But I have read that clitoris is the most excitable organ in a female. Is this normal for her?
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Undoubtedly the clitoris is the most sensitive part in a female body, but it isn’t the only sensitive part. Maybe she is real sensitive when you suck her nipples than her clitoris. From what you have explained its not like she isn’t excited at all; she is not as much excited as when you suck her nipples, so she is excited by some extent but not like when you suck her nipples.
Play with her nipples while you suck her clit, or play with her clit while you suck her nipples. The pleasure spots vary among women, and each women has her own sweet spot. So your wife surely isn’t abnormal.
There can be another reason behind this; if you’re unable to spot her clit and are merely sucking on her mound covering the entire portion, she must be feeling this way. So try to identify her clit and put more effort on it, play or suck on it while you finger her and ask your wife to play with her nipples as well; this way she can gain more pleasure.
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All women are different. While some may like their vagina to be sucked, others may like their nipples sucked and some may like their feet sucked on. It is possible that you may be rushing the moment. You need to take your time. First stroke the vagina gently and kiss around and inside. When you find her squirming and moaning then you should suck on the clitoris. Do not attack the clitoris first.
Some women do not like their clitoris touched directly and prefer indirect stimulation. You should talk to your partner what excites her and tell you how to achieve that goal. Make sure you know where the clitoris is situated. The clitoris is the female version of the penis and has the same nerve endings. Just as rough handling of the penis causes pain, the same is the case with the clitoris. The underside of the clitoris is the most sensitive just as the penis underside.
If your partner enjoys her nipples being sucked, why not continue doing that. After all her pleasure is as important as yours.
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You said she is not receptive on clit but on nipple. I gree with you because I had a girl friend like that. She was very indifferent on clit, but extremly sensitive on sucking her left ear lobe.
A girls body has three types of erogenous zone, clit, G-spot, U-spot and A-spot are the most sensitive place, then there is almost sensitive, and the third is less sensitive. The remaining few sq inch will be not sensitive.
If your wife is less sensitive in clit and more on nipple or lips or earlobe, go for that. But why its not on clit, that a big question. Clit came from the word key, meaning the key to pleasure. You can see a lot of picture of female genitalia, only the clitoral hood and small shaft you can see. In fact clit is a part of the total gland called Skene’s Gland.
I guess you are confused now on what I am trying to establish here, what I am saying is, the clitoral hood might not be sensitive, still the total Skene’s gland cannot be all insensitive. She might not respond to you rlips on her clit, but you should try with your fingers at her vagina to see how she responds to G-spot stimulation. If that doesnot work, I will talk about the third most sensitive spot, A-spot.
Anyway, still its good you know some place thats sensitive, keep exploring, you will find some more highly erogenous zones which brings her ecstasy more than clit.