I am writing this in a very confused state. I am married with a 3 year old kid. I love my wife and she loves me dearly. Our sex life is pretty average. To say the truth she is not satisfied with my size and timings. But we still enjoyed other things.

All was fine until the reunion which happened 4 months ago. Her behavior was normal but last month she confessed that she wanted to sleep with her old friend she met at the reunion. She showed me the SMS and emails that happened between them. She also confessed that they kissed.

I was speechless and shocked. She cried a lot and said that it was only for sex and not for anything else. I tried to change her but she is so adamant. She says that she loves me a lot and cares for our child and wanted to stay together. Nowadays she talks less and gives me the silent treatment. She says she’ll only continue if I give her the permission. I feel pity for her and I love her so much.

From her point of view she is right due to our bad sex life. I don’t want to talk to anyone about it. It may destroy our family respect in society. What should I do? Should I allow her?