Will my friendship go in different direction?
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Hi everyone,
I’m vignesh, 30 yr single male. Thanks to all who replied to my last question. It was very useful advise for me.
In continuation of my previous question, my friendship with married women has become serious now. She is asking me directly to have sex with her to express love between us.
I was very surprised to listen from her first time. She told me that she was very emotional and she’s waiting for long years, just she want sleep with me, at least one time.
I don’t know, what to reply? Even she is very happy with her husband and I don’t know why she’s asking me such kind of experience. I am bit worried, if I accept then It will continue for life.
Please share your suggestions in this regard.
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Answering your questions 1 by 1.
1. ‘I don’t know what to reply’ ?
Say yes, what else ? The opportunity has come knocking on your door, very rare does a woman herself expresses sexual interest for the first time with a man other than her husband.
2. ‘she’s happy with her husband, I don’t know why she’s asking me for such kind of experience’ ?
Only she can tell you, why she wants to betray a husband she’s happy with. Women unlike men don’t need any reason to cheat, if they want to cheat… They’ll cheat !
3. ‘If I accept, then it’ll continue for life’.
That’s your assumption, and dare I say far from the actual outcome. She’s indulging in an affair with you with no intention of divorcing her husband. The affair may stretch long for a year, 2 or 3. But eventually it will too worn out and either of you will seek another partner…. CAUSE NOTHING LASTS FOREVER !
Lastly, I must say that my faith in marriage is all but gone ! I see it nothing more than a useless formality or a ritual.