Will my masturbation lead to a need of real sex with a man?
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I am a girl 23 years old girl and unmarried. I got used to masturbation since last year, after reading an article. I tried it and I enjoyed it very much. I masturbate about 2 times a week after reading erotic stories most of the time.
I now sometimes feel I need something hard inside me (with stories I guess) when I masturbate. I think about my virginity and I need to keep it till my marriage. Now I am confused and will this lead to a vital need of having sex with a man?
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No one can answer this better than you yourself. If you are really desperate of getting fucked, I wonder how long u can hold yourself.. maybe masturbating in a way that you orgasm a couple of times till u get tired may help you hold back from getting a cock inside your pussy. But know this, every thing can be controlled by our thinking. So, first decide what’s more important to you. Saving your virginity till your marriage or satisfying yourself. Take a decision and stick to it. No matter what. Most importantly take this decision when you are not sexually aroused. otherwise, we all know what your decision will be.
Good Luck 🙂
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It’s all in the mind.
When you feel you are ready for a man/real penis, you will graduate to it 🙂
Meanwhile, enjoy what you are doing. And as others have pointed a lot of creative options for your to shag yourself.
One of the methods is using the handheld electric/battery operated massagers that one gets in the market. It can act as a makeshift vibrator for now.
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Virginity is associated with presence of hymen in your vagina. Sometimes this hymen can get ruptured by aggressive masturbation with fingers/objects as well as other physical activities involving contact with the vaginal area for e.g: Cycling, horse riding etc. If you wish to retain the hymen till marriage you may take care that you don’t rupture it during any of those activities.
If you wish to confirm if your hymen is intact or not, you may visit a gynaecologist and get it checked.
At your age, you are peaking sexually. Nature is working on you to get ready to mate. It is perfectly natural.
And personally, I think it is better to go with the flow of nature and let things happen as they are meant to be. Don’t fight nature.
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There is a reason, why our elders would insist on us getting married early and have kids early. All of it contributes to our positive health & society’s health, in every way.
So go on, enjoy yourself!!
Have fun on this journey of self-discovery!!!
here is something for you: YouTube this song: “Your body is a wonderland” by John Mayer and do look up the lyrics too, you’ll enjoy the song more.
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