Will my wife have sex with this Doctor in future?
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Hello Anjali Aunty,
I am new to this forum. My name is Ajay Jaiswal and I am from Delhi. I am 29 years of age. I got married two years back. Me and my wife are staying in different cities due to our nature of job.
My wife is working in a private hospital as a physiotherapist. She has a friend there who is a doctor. Both are very frank and friendly with each other. They speak on almost every topic even on sex. My wife and doctor are of the same age. Actually the Doctor wants to fuck my wife (he has indirectly communicated to her in fun).
Once my wife had severe pain in her legs. Doctor massaged her legs. He often asks her about her sex life and whether I use Viagra etc. On the other hand my wife is very loyal to me. She loves me a lot and shares everything with me. She had no affair in past.
She is a God fearing lady. My concern is: Can she indulge in sexual activity with that Doctor as he wants to seduce her and fuck her. Reason why I am thinking about this is that we both are living separately and meet once in month. She may also having sex urge to fuck more often. She has never got orgasm while making love in the two years.
Please clear my doubts.
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The reasons you have listed are not sufficient to doubt her fidelity. Moreover, she loves you and she is loyal so I do not think that she will cross her line with that doctor.
Women are more strong-minded than to men when they decide something and here it sounds that your wife wants to stay loyal with you so no need to worry unnecessarily.
Your suspicious nature will only ruin your mental peace and your married life as it has no base to doubt your wife. I have seen many loyal couple who are staying alone due to job.
In my office, there is a married woman who is very close to me like your wife close to that doctor or even more. We even flirts but when it comes to sex or I try to be more close to her she takes back steps and asks me to stop that means if woman is staying alone and if she has a close friend at work place than it does mean that she will sleep that man.
Moreover, as you mentioned that your wife is God fearing lady that means she will never cheat on you as her moral value would not allow her to take step in that direction.
If you have a problem with her friend doctor then ask your wife to maintain distance with him and do not allow him to touch her body, even to massage her legs and suggest her to take help of other female if she has severe pain.
Do not indicate that you do not trust her but explain her that you are worried about her safety and that is why you are asking her to take extra measure to be safe.
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If your wife had something to hide from you or something to be ashamed about her behaviour, she would not have shared about her friendliness with her doctor colleague.
Learn to trust your wife. Marriage is based on trust and when you both are living apart due to job constraints, it is all the more important to trust your spouse.
Women are generally stronger in a relationship and will not give in to their lust as easily as men. The more you suspect your wife the unhappier you will be and will make your wife unhappy too.
Women like to boast about the appreciation they get from other men. Why don’t you praise your wife more often on the phone? You may be physically staying apart, but these days communication via phone, skype, WhatsApp is easy. Use it.
Relax. All is fine.
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you say that your wife loves you and trust you then why you so worried about her?? the most important bond between a couple is -TRUST…relax yourself…do exercise …concentrate on your work …if you still have doubt then call her to your location and ask her search for a job in your locality
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