Will there be problems if I marry this fat girl?

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Will there be problems if I marry this fat girl?

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I am a 23 years old boy. My height is 5 feet 6 inches. I am a little fat only on my stomach. My family found a girl for my marriage but she is fat ( weight 84 kilograms and waist 38 also round shape face almost chubby ).

But I can’t go against my family and I also have committed to the girl for our future in marriage, so I can’t go back. What can I do? Please help me.

The girl is going to the gym after insistence from me. She also quit food and only going to the gym and working hard. Marriage date is already fixed in July month. I want to know that will it be right if I reject her or if I can’t reject her will there be a problem in future, such as problems in our married life regarding sexual relations?

Actually my private part’s size is small 4-5 inches and she is fat. Her vagina size will be large according to her physique. I am confused and many questions are wandering in my mind.

Please help.

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Wife & Husband Relation Anonymous 9 months 2024-05-21T09:50:52+01:00 2024-05-21T09:50:52+01:00 4 Answers 114 views

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Anonymous · Answer 1 · 2024-05-21T09:51:51+01:00

What would you do if you marry a slim girl and after marriage she becomes fat,marriage is not only about sex, you should be trying to understand how well you two understand each other…Regarding sex with partner who is fat you will get ideas in Kamasutra videos or books.. If a girl is fat her vagina will not be large.
You should be happy that she putting her efforts in reducing her weight.. You should not marry her if you are thinking you are doing a favour to her as without mutual respect any relation won’t survive..

Anonymous · Answer 2 · 2024-05-21T09:52:47+01:00

The ground you are trying to promulgate for break up is not acceptable since you are already committed and marriage date almost fixed so you should go for marriage. Whatever you are thinking right now you should have thought it earlier as it is not something, which comes before you suddenly. You are aware from the beginning of relationship.

Neither her family hides her status of being fat nor are you unaware. Moreover, you have given her commitment knowing she is fat. If you were worried about your future sex life then there is nothing to worry, as her fatness would not affect your sexual life in any manner. Your penis size is okay and you will be able to satisfy her fully if you know how to use your tool effectively.

Moreover, she already joined the gym and if she is regular on her work out then she will lose her preferred weight. Do not be afraid just because she is fat. Try to see other positive signs in her. If I were in your place, I would go for marriage. I will never make her realize that she looks fatty instead; I give her full confidence so she could concentrate on her absolutely. Girls are very sensitive about their look so it is your key responsibility to make her self-assurance about her look even if she does not.

Anonymous · Answer 3 · 2024-05-21T11:45:22+01:00

It sounds like you’re facing a complex situation, and it’s understandable to have concerns about compatibility and physical intimacy in a relationship. However, there are several important points to consider:

Communication is Key: It’s crucial to have open and honest communication with your partner about your concerns and expectations regarding physical intimacy. Discussing these issues respectfully and sensitively can help both of you understand each other’s needs and find ways to address them together.
Physical Appearance vs. Compatibility: While physical attraction is important in a relationship, it’s not the only factor that determines compatibility. Focus on the qualities that attracted you to each other and the potential for emotional connection and mutual respect. A strong emotional bond can often transcend physical appearances.
Body Positivity and Self-Improvement: Encouraging your partner to pursue a healthier lifestyle, such as going to the gym and adopting better eating habits, is commendable. However, it’s important to support her efforts in a positive and non-judgmental manner. Remember that everyone’s journey to health and fitness is unique, and progress may take time.
Concerns about Sexual Compatibility: It’s natural to have concerns about sexual compatibility, but it’s also important to remember that physical compatibility is not solely determined by body size or shape. Every individual’s preferences and experiences vary, and mutual respect, communication, and experimentation can contribute to a fulfilling sexual relationship.
Seeking Professional Advice: If you’re still feeling unsure or overwhelmed, consider seeking advice from a counselor or therapist who can provide guidance and support as you navigate these concerns. They can help you explore your feelings, communicate effectively with your partner, and develop strategies for building a strong and healthy relationship.

Ultimately, the decision about whether to proceed with the marriage should be based on a combination of factors, including your feelings for each other, shared values and goals, and your ability to communicate and support each other through challenges. Trust your instincts and take the time to reflect on what truly matters to you in a relationship.

Anonymous · Answer 4 · 2024-05-21T13:37:23+01:00

If you like the girl and she likes you, no harm in marrying her.

Regarding your doubts about having sex with a fat woman, let me tell you that if she is a virgin, her vagina will still be tight for you to have pleasure. You can learn about different positions for sex with fat woman.