I was married for 4 years now, I have 1 child with my husband. I met him online and after a year we decided to get married despite of our long distance relationship. After we got married he stays with me for good, but after few months of being together I found out that he still maintaining his dating site membership and communicating with different women here. I confronted him and he reason out of being BORED! He was retired so he just stay home while I am working in my part time job. My fear here is what if he is seeing these women and catch sexually transmitted deseases? It was very devastating knowing that my husband was straying around while im not around.

He told me that they (women) are just text mates but of course I cannot just easily believe on him. What surprised me when I found out that he has 2 kids before he married me but I just accepted it and just go with the flow. Still my fear is there, everytime I leave the house for work I feel that he is doing something. Because of my uncomfortability I tried looking for his other celphone and I found that he had sex with 2-3 different women near our area. I was really feel down, broken and devastated. I dont know what to do, but later on I forgiven him.. He is a good provider, he is always with me when I am home he never go places without me except if Im working. We bought a house, a car and we have loans that we are still paying right now, reasons why I cannot leave him.

I tried to be a good wife, provide and cope with his needs, he asked for another child and now I am pregnant. He asked if we could open a business of our own and I did helped him to do so and we are now running our small business. I thought everything are smooth and fine but 3 weeks ago I received a lot of missed calls to the phone that he used before. The woman is trying to contact him and threatening him for something bad if he will not talk to her. I asked the woman what is her purpose for looking for my husband and she said to just ask my husband about her and I need to confront him. So i did asked him and as expected he said he dont know a soul that he is obligated with. I feel something is not right here this time so I investigated and found out that the woman is pregnant! I confronted him but he just said that those women is trying to get money from foreign man like him. What I did I contacted the woman pretending as I am is my husband and I confirmed that they are still communicating and she is really pregnant. This time I dont know what to do? I am pregnant too and I resigned from my part time job so I could help him in our small business. I feel lost, broken and confused. I need some advice please.