Girl in office. Is she trying to hit on me?
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i am a 30yr old unmarried man. there is a girl aged about 21-22, working in my office who is decent looking, sweet & at times wears revealing tops. last monday when she came to office, she was wearing a black dress which particularly accentuated the shape of her very ample breasts. When she came in my cabin and was writing down a list, her wholesome cleavage came to my direct view & I could not help staring at it as practically half of her entire assets were visible to me.
I was highly aroused by what I saw for some seconds, which is when i noticed her looking straight at me. I was caught and terribly embarrassed about being caught staring i mumbled a sorry saying i could not help it. she just smiled at me and said its ok & she did not mind.
Since then i must have jerked off to her image numerous times but am unable to get my mind off her. We meet everyday as she is my junior we meet in our cabin 3-4 times regularly for various office work. she wears sleeveless tops & quite a few times while discussing work will adjust her hair clip giving a view of her fleshy spotless armpits & showing her bra strap at times as well.
By the time she is leaving my cabin I find myself having a raging boner because of her wanton display & had to use the office restroom twice to relieve my boner. I want to stop this as i feel quite embarrassed about it, can you please tell me how do i get my mind off her? Deep inside i have been very keen to bed her at least for once but am afraid how she may react & more so since she is my junior. if i have sex with her once will solve this issue?
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Not a big a deal, thats now much common in professional world. I see this as an intern working under you, demanding for some professional favor from you indirectly.
And for that she is giving out hints, and want you to pick them up and bed her after that she has a strong base for you to provide uneven favours to her. I dont doubt her character, few women are that and you cant call them a whore. They get laid fo success, I witness such women daily, now its not hard for me to make out when I see a hot chick with old man late at night or a pub. So, next thing you are confused with is whether to fuck her or not. You are a married man, much mature, shoulnt be confused with this one. If you are the one who cares for his wife and call yourself a ONE WOMEN MAN you must ignore her erotic gestures and this should make her understand slowly you are not interested, and if are one the who thinks LIFE COMES ONCE then go ahead and ask her for coffee outside, this should set a track for you to her HOLE. And thats too funny, you think fucking her for a night will get this done. You are getting nuts, think like a gentleman, right now you are assuming like a teenage kid fantacing after reading a erotic story. Its your call. But a simple but important thing you must remember pleasures always carries a risk, and that risk grows 100 times for a married man. Best of luck
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Dear Brother,I think she has been giving these subtle hints that she has interest in you to at least certain extent ,otherwise women are far more aware of the effect than us can think about their attire is having ! And particularly they are too careful and ensure that they are not exposing their vital body parts to any male! But here Even after catching you directly staring at her cleavage and after your apology says ok and smiles ! I will at least take this as her interest in you! and she has been expecting you to make some move! But as you both working in same organization and you being her senior and if her intentions are at all bad she could accuse you of sexual harassment too! So better ensure that her feelings are genuine !For that you have to run a check on her social,educational ,family background! Upon you being satisfied with that you can think of expressing your love to her ! For that rather than ogling her body start to look into her eyes directly as long as possible and also start to praise her on her looks and the way she carries herself and the way she dresses and color combinations she uses and like this! She will obviously reciprocate appropriately then one day tell her about your feelings to her and i am sure she wont turn down your proposal!
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Your question is quite confusing. In the heading you have written that, she has been trying to make a hit on you ? But in your description it seems that you are trying to hit on her. It is you who want to get her in bed. If i start from your last sentence then there is no solution if you will get sex with her at least once and you think you will forget her after getting one chance. You will defiantly look for one more session and it would go on and on. If you really want to get rid her out of your mind then ask her directly telling that to wear full length dress or otherwise i will fall in love you. If you ask this, she will understand your intention towards her. But there is a chance of misunderstanding that from her side there are no sufficient indication of her interest in you. She might want something else from you as you are her senior and she would think that you can give her some Favour to boost her promotion. You will have to act very carefully as this could become serious issue. And at the same time you have to do something to get her closer as this is the right time to get her attention as she is frequently in interaction with you. Before some other person grab this opportunity. So act accordingly but result oriented. Best of luck. May you will get that smashing beauty.