How do I know if this woman is interested in me?
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Hi I am 45 years old married man. I am in love with 40 year women. She is my wife’s friend. She used to laugh and stare at me. One time I told her directly about my affection towards her but she turned it down saying its just infatuation.
I tried to talk to her on Facebook and WhatsApp. But she blocked me on both. She does not say yes or no clearly. When we meet in parties she does not show any hatred. What I should do? Does she feel anything about me?
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Kamraj, Please try to use your head rather than your dickhead which you currently using to think about that woman. See we are of the same age and we are experienced persons and should not think this way. You saying she used to stare at you and laughing with you just might have been innocent You are taking it granted she has’that’ kind of interest in you and as you did correctly you did tell her your interest in her which she has declined politely. Now as they say one good turn deserves another you too should give respect to her feelings and let her lead her life the way she wants and do not interfere with her life ever. If at all she develops any interest in you later she knows your interest so she would take appropriate steps and would approach you.
Thank God as she have not told anything about this to your wife. Otherwise you would have found you in a great mess. So please try to remain in control and do not bother with her anymore. We should behave maturely with our forwarding age and should not behave like teenagers madly in love, loosing sleep and always restless over the love which never was ours and never might be ours. My words might seem harsh to you but thats what i think is correct for you buddy. sorry