How to make a young boy last longer in bed?
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I am a 35 year old woman married for 10 years now. My husband is out most of the time and to satisfy myself sexually, I began sexual relations with my husband’s nephew few months back. He is 16 now and lives with me for his studies.
The only problem is he focused too much on penetration and does not last long. I instruct him to spend more time on foreplay but he is very ignorant. He is able to have another erection soon but I want him to spend more time on foreplay and last little longer.
How should I do it?
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I do have a duty to point out that your nephew is under the age of 18. In some parts of the world, this is below the age of consent. I don’t know whether this is the case where you live, you will know that better than me. Having said that, it seems like your nephew is sexually aware, and sexually capable. Therefore, whatever the law might say, he’s old enough to know what he’s doing. I’m not interested in making moral judgements, or telling you what’s right or wrong. You have your own values, and it’s up to you to determine whether you should continue or not.
You are in control of this situation, so it is up to you to set the pace. It’s quite straightforward really, when you think about it. You have to tell him that he doesn’t get to penetrate you when he wants, but only after you feel satisfied with his foreplay. If he doesn’t like it, tell him that he better start masturbating again, and forget about having sex with you. I know this is probably an empty threat, but he doesn’t have to realise that.
What really needs to happen is that you sit him down, and you explain to him about satisfying a woman properly. Tell him that it’s not all about him getting his dick in any hole that is available, as quickly as he can, but it’s about learning the arts of stimulating a woman’s body to bring her maximum pleasure, and in so doing, he will get her full cooperation to bring him the maximum pleasure for himself. If he can’t get his head around this, send him back to his room and let him stare at porno for the next 4 or 5 years.
You have to look upon yourself as his teacher. All good teachers want their pupils to excel, and in your case, it’s vital that he does. You are playing a dangerous game, so you want the rewards to be worth the risks you are taking. The biggest upside for this is, he is young, and he will be eager to learn, particularly if you make the learning very enjoyable and exciting for him. He has the kind of vigour that most women long for, particularly when they are being sexually deprived; so all you have to do is channel his boundless energy into satisfying you properly. He himself will reap the rewards if he does a good job. But if you’re going to continue this illicit liaison, for gods sake be very careful. I trust that you are using a safe method of birth control. Personally, I would recommend a contraceptive implant, but that is really something for you and your gynaecologist to discuss.
Good luck,
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I do have a duty to point out that your nephew is under the age of 18. In some parts of the world, this is below the age of consent. I don’t know whether this is the case where you live, you will know that better than me. Having said that, it seems like your nephew is sexually aware, and sexually capable. Therefore, whatever the law might say, he’s old enough to know what he’s doing. I’m not interested in making moral judgements, or telling you what’s right or wrong. You have your own values, and it’s up to you to determine whether you should continue or not.
You are in control of this situation, so it is up to you to set the pace. It’s quite straightforward really, when you think about it. You have to tell him that he doesn’t get to penetrate you when he wants, but only after you feel satisfied with his foreplay. If he doesn’t like it, tell him that he better start masturbating again, and forget about having sex with you. I know this is probably an empty threat, but he doesn’t have to realise that.
What really needs to happen is that you sit him down, and you explain to him about satisfying a woman properly. Tell him that it’s not all about him getting his dick in any hole that is available, as quickly as he can, but it’s about learning the arts of stimulating a woman’s body to bring her maximum pleasure, and in so doing, he will get her full cooperation to bring him the maximum pleasure for himself. If he can’t get his head around this, send him back to his room and let him stare at porno for the next 4 or 5 years.
You have to look upon yourself as his teacher. All good teachers want their pupils to excel, and in your case, it’s vital that he does. You are playing a dangerous game, so you want the rewards to be worth the risks you are taking. The biggest upside for this is, he is young, and he will be eager to learn, particularly if you make the learning very enjoyable and exciting for him. He has the kind of vigour that most women long for, particularly when they are being sexually deprived; so all you have to do is channel his boundless energy into satisfying you properly. He himself will reap the rewards if he does a good job. But if you’re going to continue this illicit liaison, for gods sake be very careful. I trust that you are using a safe method of birth control. Personally, I would recommend a contraceptive implant, but that is really something for you and your gynaecologist to discuss.
Good luck,
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sushma, I hope you KNOW that what you are doing is a crime as per indian law. You are a custodian of this young lad and you have resorted to have sexual relations with him to quinch your sexual hunger. You could be booked under POSCO or similar law.
Note that consent of the minor(Whose age is bellow 18) does not have any value in the eyes of the law. Due to the latest NIrbhaya’s juvenile accused release they are thinking or have thought of reducing the age of the males in this scenerio but details are still awaited.
Morally also what you are doing is wrong. We do not want to put questions on your morality as it is not our cup of tea. Still parents of this kid would have left him with you belief, trust that you will ‘teach’ him and indeed you are ‘teaching’or ‘taught’ him such untowards things . Think what your life would be if your husband and other relatives ever found out what has been going on! Rather find some matured understanding fuckbuddy and have it with him.
After all its your life but for the minutes of pleasure do not destroy one young life. Do pardon him!
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There is a large variety of answers if you do a little bit search on Google. he can drink a beer if he’s a drinker. as here in Delhi, most of the people use to drink a beer before they goes to the GB ROAD (famous red light area of Delhi). Beer will delay the time of ejaculation.
The best you can do is tell him that you don’t like the way he do. you like cuddling and touching and foreplay. Help him to learn new ways to make you satisfy. Tell him to do whats your fantasies. and also tell him that if you keep on doing the way you do. you’ll not be getting chance to fuck me anymore.
I’m sure this will affect his mind and he’ll be in your hands. Try to avoid the positions which will make him cum soon like Doggy Style. Focus on missionary position in which you are on top jumping on his dick giving him a rim job. This will enhance your pleasure and delay his time for ejaculation. Which will be enjoyable for you both.
Happy Fucking
Noni