My husband and I have been married for two years. In the past, I used to be very excited to go down on him but that has changed now since he only return it once in a blue moon. When I talk to him and tell him the same way he has needs, I also have needs. He tells me that I’m wrong that he shouldn’t have to do it to get it in return. I’m not looking for anything in return but at least make an effort to do the things I like as well. Every time we have sex it’s always in one position, if I ask to change up things, he refuses most of the time unless I’m the one that’s going to be on top. I love doggy and he rarely ever does it. We never really have foreplay either. Tonight, he told me I’m the only woman that does need a reason to go down, that all women do it for their husbands. Am I being selfish? Or am I wrong for refusing to go down on him regularly because I don’t get things that I want in bed?