I am 30 and still I haven’t touched any girl. How to get a girl for Sex?
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Hi,
I am 30 years old who hasn’t done sex yet and only because of this reason I am addicted to masturbation.
The reason behind not getting married is economic problem. You can understand girls want to marry wealthy guys rather than poor guys. Many times I tried to make a gf, so I can ask her to have sex with me.
However, due to money problems, I spend very very less on her, so girls stop responding and go for other guys. I am shy and hesitate to ask any babhi or girls upfront for having sex. I don’t know how to let any girl know that you want to have sex with her without asking directly because I am not aware of gestures which are done by other guys.
You guys wouldn’t believe that till date I have never touched or kissed any girl. Please suggest how can I get rid of masturbation? I really want to get rid of it but I can’t control myself and masturbate almost 5-7 times in a week.
Also, I can’t hire any callgirl, because of money problem. It seems poor people don’t have any sexual life.
Please suggest what should I do now?
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You are not alone who has a money problem so it is not like that poor people cannot get married or cannot get a girlfriend. See around and you will find more people who are poor way than you and still married so I would say poverty is just an excuse. It might be difficult for you to find a match for you because of the poverty but if you put enough effort and your family supports you then you can find a partner for yourself.
There is no need to go for the wealthy marriage ceremony and arrange something where minimum money can get your marriage done like you can go to the temple and court to get married and you can save money.
As far as your masturbation problem is concerned, it is not a problem actually as all the men do it whether they are married or unmarried but you have to reduce the frequency of the masturbation like 2-3 times a week would be best. Self-control is the only way to control your habit of masturbation.