I want to be with my girlfriend but cannot forget the NSA sex with escorts
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I had been visiting escorts for quite a long time and because of this this my relationship had taken a strain. Now I want to be with my girlfriend only but I just cannot forget the pleasures I had with the escorts I visited.
My girlfriend loves me a lot and I really appreciate that. But somewhere I just can’t forget the lust I had experienced with the escorts. I had promised my girlfriend that I shan’t visit any escorts from now on but my lust once again took over me.
I visited the escort once again. But immediately after ejaculating, I was feeling very guilty.
I mean when I am with my girlfriend I just can’t go rough. I love her. But with escorts I can have sex with them the way I like. I can have sex with them at my will and satisfy all my fantasies like ejaculating in their mouth or making them rim me or even just having anal. However I just can’t bring myself to do these things with my girlfriend.
How do I forget these escort experiences and be only with my girlfriend? Or should I go to these escorts without letting her know?
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First, you are doing wrong by comparing pleasure between your girlfriend and escort girl. You need to understand that you are comparing two different persons on two different situations. What your girlfriend has been doing with you is her love for you and on the other hand, with escort girls there is pure matter of money. Second escort girls are professional and expert at giving pleasure to their customers while your girlfriend is new to this so there is no comparison between two.
You have mentioned that your girlfriend loves you too much, do not you love her same way? If you want to stop your habit of visiting escort than you may do it with self-control as self-control is the only option. Initially you will find it difficult but that is not impossible. All boys’ wants sexual pleasure but that does not mean you should visit escort or call girl despite of you have a girlfriend who loves you.
You are feeling guilty after having sex with escort girl it means your inner soul does not allow you to do so but your mind overpower of your inner soul. If you want to stop than stop it in one short, there are no any other alternative options. If you are looking for another option, than you are making yourself a fool. You may take the help of your girlfriend as she is supportive and understands you.
If you are not able to stop yourself then you should be very clear to your girlfriend that you are like that otherwise, that is not fare part from your side. You are making your girlfriend suffers on your account. You have no right to hurt her by your indecent acts and that too knowingly. Give a serious thought on this and decide accordingly.
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Its pretty clear that you are addicted to getting laid with escorts and cannot give this up, so why do you want to spoil the life of your girlfriend by constantly breaking up her heart with your sexual escapades with escorts?
Its called prioritizing, given a chance most men or at least some men love to enjoy what all you’ve described but at the same time they’d hold back from fulfilling their desires because they realize that the sexual satisfaction lasts for a few moments alone while the emotional satisfaction or the love they derive from their partners is no match to the mind boggling sex; so at the end of the day its your call to whether stay with her or break-up with her.
If you ask me, I’d say break-up, because you seem to have no control over yourself, so ditch your girl and keep banging whores. Of course it would be hard to break that girl’s heart but on the brighter side, you get to enjoy fresh meat every single day and imagine the way you get to fulfill all your carnal desires on a daily basis which seem to never get satisfied no matter how much sex you have.
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As I can see, you are not addicted to escort girls. You are much more addicted to certain way of having sex, we can call that kinky or fetish or fantasy driven sex. You have some urge and your libido is driven by some particular acts, again let me repeat, its kinkyness is your home. The same if provided by your girlfriend, I am almost certai you wont go back to escorts.
Th ereality is, escorts are very good on identifying a man’s wish and can act accordingly because there is money involved. But with wife or girlfriend, we male try to show our romantic side and supress our kinky nature.
What you can do, its upto you. Best would be talk to your girlfriend and accept your kinkyness, tell her if she is accomodative on some acts, that will help you, her and your probable child in future (after all you pay the escort, if you save that money, thats your child’s paternal property and that is his/her).
If she does not go with the fantasy, fetish and kinkyness, change your girlfriend. After all she is not your wife, you can even get one good fuck dirty one as your girlfriend and later get married. That would be too selfish, as your focus is on sex only. Still can match your need.
Just one caution, when you share your fantasy and fulfill that, ask her about her fantasy too. If she has some weird fantasy, you are obliged to fulfill that also.
Dont spend money on escorts, even you spent, dont keep feeling guilty after the act. I am a proud man, I love escort service because they make sure a paisa usool performance.