What might be the consequences of a male masseur for my wife?
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Dear All,
First of all thanks a lot for the answers to my first two questions. In fact that totally changed my mentality. However, whenever I imagine a male masseur giving massage to my beautiful wife, it makes me horny. I don’t know why the hell this thought comes in my mind because I really love my wife.
To fulfill my fantasy, I was thinking of doing this. Yesterday, I was just talking about it and realized she will be ready for it.
What might be the consequences of male masseur for my wife ? Is there any possibility that she may fall in love with male masseur? Why does this thought of male masseur massaging my wife make me horny ? Is there any scientific reason?
Is there any problem with me ? Or is it normal for man ?
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First things first. You are not abnormal to fantasize about a male masseur giving a massage to your wife. The thought that she will be serviced by another man, excites you. Whether this is only a fantasy or whether you want to give it wings depends on your wife.
Having a massage from a professional male masseur does not imply sex. Massage therapy is recognized as a complimentary medicine treatment as it complements mainstream medicine and adds a positive synergistic effect to a person getting the massage. Massage therapy increases circulation, aids the healing process of the body, increases the range of motion in the joints, releases toxins and reduces pain.
You have not told us, whether you fantasize about the masseur having sex with your wife, during the course of the massage. The masseur will in all probability work out before hand the extent of the massage desired. The client can usually decide his/her preference and so the massage can be customised to suit the client.
Make no mistake. A massage can be erotic. Just the thought of another man’s hand on a female body is sufficient to let the juices flow. This moment can be a delicate one. Does she make the move and encourage a sexual intonation?
I would suggest that first you give her a massage with aromatic oil and proper ambience (dull lighting, scented room, air conditioning etc.) and gauge her mood from there. You can try it with your clothes on and see how it goes.
Your question about her falling in love etc, is ill founded. But I must warn you, that if sex happens, there is every possibility that your performance in bed may be compared with his and therein lies the danger. Are you mature enough not to let thoughts of jealousy enter your head? Have you thought about being in the room during the massage or will you give them the freedom to be alone?
You may say that this is a one-time fantasy. It never stays that way.
One final thought. Do keep some condoms ready, just in case things get out of hand and the masseuse is not equipped (does not normally happen as most masseuse are aware of what could happen).