Hello All,

To know about me, please refer to my last question:

As per suggestions of you kind People on this forum, I stopped looking out for gay submissive partners and started looking on Dating site. Fortunately, I meet one very nice lady who is 35, separated with a child. She had a very bad married life where her husband controlled her, abused and hit her.

We started talking and instantly hit it off. We decided to meet and in the last week of December we met. We spent 3 hours with each other talking about various things and believe me it was the most wonderful time, I have spent in my life. That lady really touched my heart. We met as friends but ended up as a couple. She is submissive, very much interested in BDSM, wanted me to control and dominate her, considerate and affectionate.

The entire next day, we spent in discussing various things of our lives and how to proceed in the future but strangely, on the 3rd day she blocked me on Whatsapp, telegram and on dating site without saying anything. I was very much disturbed and wanted to know the reason, so I contacted her and she told me she blocked me because I remind her of her bad and ugly married life. (I couldn’t understand where I was wrong).

Then after 2 days, she unblocked me saying…. She is missing me a lot and we started chatting but this time, she was a completely changed woman. No affection, love or anything. On the contrary, I found her very mean and self centered. After a day or two again she blocked me and on 31st Dec, she messaged me that she wants to chat with me.

In the chat, she expressed her desire that I should abuse, assault and have raw sex with her. I was very hurt to accept that and flatly denied it. Then she blocked me again. Now it has been a week since therre has been any communication from her end.

Since that day, I am very much disturbed. I really liked her a lot and miss her like anything. I really wonder why she changed, and hurt me so much for no reason.

Can anyone here have any answer on this?

Regards