Sex you can have to spice up your relationship.

A sex drought when in a long term relationship can at times be pretty unavoidable, especially if you’re both working full time. Life and fatigue can get in the way of your much needed one-on-one time, and as a result, your relationship can feel a negative impact. 

And so, in effort to regain the fast-paced libidos you both once shared, you end up experimenting with a handful of things that perhaps weren’t necessary once upon a time.

Here are eight types of sex you’ll only know if you’re trying to spice up your relationship

‘Spontaneous’ 

Well, sort of. You’ve pretty much planned that you are going to have spontaneous sex, it was just the thought of when and where. Either way, you’re both definitely prepared for it.

 ‘Experimental’ 

Trying out sex toys you have no idea how to use. And because you’ve gone so long without using them, it just feels a little bit weird. So which bit goes where?

‘Imaginative’ 

A little bit of characterization and role-play never hurt anyone, well, except for the painful embarrassment of being unable to take your ‘naughty doctor’ persona seriously.

‘Online help’

Because you think porn is going to be a fantastic idea, what better way to heat up the mood? It turns out fake, annoying orgasms coming from your crackling laptop speakers really aren’t that much of a turn on.

 ‘Dress up’

Also known as a fantastic excuse to buy that incredible lingerie set that you couldn’t find an excuse big enough to buy… until now.

‘Dominant’

Perhaps having a go at the whole Fifty Shades of Grey thing will spice up the bedroom. Just please hold off on the excessive lip biting.

‘Vocal’

Meaning dirty talk. No doubt, you’ve tried it. And no doubt, you’ve definitely struggled to keep a straight face while doing so.

 ‘Drunk’

If all else fails, let’s just get drunk and see where it goes. Let’s just hope we don’t pass out beforehand.