Is it wrong to have two lovers?
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Hi anjali madam,
I am sincerely asking Users this question. Depending on your advices, I will decide whether to continue the relation with the boy who ate my shit and tattooed my name on his chest. (See old Posts).
He really loves me. Initially, I was afraid to talk with him but now I am getting too close to him. He is so romantic and I love his chatting very much. He is also a handsome boy. I have still not accepted his proposal. I am also in love with the other boy since last 5 years. But he does not talk romantically and even didn’t kiss me in these 5 years, but he loves me lot.
I want both these lovers. Can I have a relation with both of them? What will Society think about me?
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Do not do it. If both r loving u seriously u hav to choose one of them for urself. Atlst for the courtesy of the love u hav for last 5years say ur guy about this other guy. U will need his help, even if u decide to break up with him. Rather do it with his will too instead just dump him for a guy who came just now. U hav to tell ur current guy the story. Ofcourse u can hav relationship and sleep with both of them but for how far? Being a girl when your marriage is coming up u hav to choose one, at that point u hav to giv up on one and the guy too has to let u go, if u take it too far thr r chances that u could get physically hurt too by one of them. Dont use the guys, talk to them n sort it out, that’ll be relief for all u three.
Personally I would qoute – known devil is better than the unknown stranger.
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Society will definitely have special words for you like whore, *****, ****, prostitute etc and that is for sure, no doubt at all, I am sorry for using such harsh words usually I have not but that is what society is going to refer you because you want to lovers.
Just give me simple answer; can you ride two horses simultaneously? It sounds that you are immature to be with either of them.
The guy who ate your shit is not in love with you just psycho nothing else as his actions suggest that he will be dangerous in future and you will be victim of physical abuse if you decided to be with him.
The guy you are in love for five years is, either not mature or not a perfect man to be in love. He have not kissed and talked romantically with you in those five years and let me tell you five is enough time for kiss and sex so I do not think that you both are for each other or in love or on the same page to get married.
I would suggest you stop talking to both and spend some time alone with yourself to figure out what you want from life as you seem to be confused and do not know what you want and where to go. First, you should figure out what you like and what you can do to make your life better.