Can I set my life right by marrying my Nephew?
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Hello,
I am Nima, 36 years old. I got married 2 years ago. My Husband settled outside India and does not want to live with me.
I know this may sound like an AA story, but every word is true. Please read about my problems and give me your suggestion with proper dedication. It’s my humble request.
Since my husband left me, I started to live with my nephew. He lives alone as he has no parents. I am attracted towards him and he cares for me and treats me like his wife. We began to love each other and finally we had sex.
Now, I am legally separated from my husband. My Nephew and I had been to Goa recently for a holiday and we enjoyed our honeymoon. He is 30 year old. Now he wants to marry me.
Should I go for it or enjoy only sex with him. We have no relative issues.
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I don’t understand your hesitation. Is it the age factor? or is it about Society? You cannot control what others think, so just ignore them. You said that you have no relative issue. This is good as sometimes Relatives can be a pain and are worried only about what others will say about them….they don’t care about your Life.
Your Trump Card is that you have obtained divorce. Check with a Lawyer if all your papers are in order. You now have your freedom to decide your own life.
Since you have spent a pre-marriage honeymoon with your nephew, you would know if you both are compatabile. In that case, why hold back and if you both love each other then go ahead. I do not think Law will have an issue in blood relations marrying, but medically there can be an issue.
Modern medicine has however advanced so much that even having children may not be a problem. But this you should speak to your doctor, who will guide you.
Best of Luck in whatever decision you take.
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Though you want to marry him but does he want to marry you? Or al he wants is a sexual fling?
So first discuss this with him. Because in. love everything looks good but with. marriage comes responsibilities and commitment!
As it is you already have burnt your fingers so now at least take precautions and do not make a hasty decision.
As of now your sexual needs are getting fulfilled. But see how compatible you emotionally are.
Take informed decision.
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1.You are legally separated from your husband.
2.Your nephew lives alone and he has no parents. Is he son of your elder sister or son of your elder brother.
3.Your age is 36 and his age is 30. The age difference of 6 is OK.
4.You do not have any relative issues. In some communities, marrying one’s sister son is acceptable. That is father marrying elder sister and son marrying the younger sister.
5.You both love each other. Do not delay further. Marrying and having children at the earliest is the priority for you considering your age 36.