How to deal with mixed feelings and respond to husband weird fantacies?
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Well it’s more of a confusion as well dilemma for me that how to respond my hubby weird request as recently he developed a weird fantasy to wear revealing cloths whether its home or even going outside which looks very weird to me but somehow my husband is not ready to listen NO.
This is so ironical that though i am always reluctant but i can see the change in hubby in bed whenever we are together and also i am feeling so good about such changes…
But recently i experienced some real shocking incidences too which are making me feel afraid too…so what should i do?
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You find it distressing that your Husband likes to wear revealing clothes. I can’t see a problem with this when the two of your home together, but I must admit that I would find it a little disturbing if he wants to dress this way when he goes out. I was born and raised in London. The way people dress in my country is very different, and far more liberal, then one might expect in a country like India. But even here, people are expected to dress in ways that are appropriate. A lot depends on the circumstances; a trip to the seaside allows for greater freedom of dress than a trip to the opera!!!
When you talk about revealing dress, you don’t really go into any details, so it’s hard for me to assess whether I would think his sense of adventure is out of hand or not. However, what you do at home is a different thing entirely. I quite routinely live nude in our house, as do my husband, our girlfriend, and our daughtery. We see nothing wrong in being naked together, in the privacy of our own home, and we keep dressing gowns and easy pull on clothes hung up, ready to slip on if we get visitors who do not share our three attitudes, or would feel embarrassed.
If your husband is happy to restrict his adventurous dressing to the home, then I suggest you indulge him. You point out yourself that it does lead to him being somewhat more entertaining when the two of you are in bed together, so make the most of that, and enjoy it for all it’s worth. It’s a small price to pay for a better sex life!!!
Meet him halfway, and let him dress how he wants at home, while asking him to be a bit more sensible when he goes out.
Best of luck,