How should I deal with my wife’s unorthodox sexual desires?
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I am sam 32 years old. My wife ******* is 8 years elder than me. She is now at her 40’s & she is already a divorcee. She doesn’t have any kids from her ex husband. We fell in love at my work place and got married.
Reason I am here with my question is I am really afraid and confused with her sexual urges. She is 5.8 height and a broad structured. So sexually very strong and demanding and expects sex more and more. Something is more attractive in her as everyone will find her wide big butt vety hot and sexy . Really big one. She’s always proud to have that in her.
Something turned to be very surprising for me when she confessed a couple fantasies and desires. I don’t really understand how can I deal with them . Yes we often discuss about many of our fatasiesin details . But from last few months, she is requesting many of her unorthodox desires to be fulfilled. She’s desperately wishing to be exposed in public by me. Asking me to press her boobs, slapping knowingly on her firm tight butt, absuse her calling vulger words . She literally wants to be noticed by people.
second wish she wants in bad way is to be screwed by more than one guy at the same time while i would be watching
Thirdly fantasy is I am have sex with a teen age girl where she would be watching it for her enjoyment.
Please suggest how should I deal with this situation? Shall I go & agree what she wants ? I should I have sex with a teen infront of her and allow her to have sex more than one guy, where we both will watch each other’s encounters?
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I do not find these fantasies creepy at all, as many women have such kind of fantasies and such fantasies give them enjoyment. Bottom question is, are you comfortable with this or not? If you are not comfortable then you should discuss with her showing your intention that you are uncomfortable with the ides and do not wish her to do such weird things for pleasure.
However, if you find this thrilling then you may go ahead and can have fun mutually with all the fantasy. However, you both need to discuss the consequences. Do some compromise to minimize involved risk.
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You explained your wife sexy and well build. As per your explanation your wife is feel good for her well shaped butt and body as like other women. She married you second time means that she might have sexual relation with the person he married. Now days it is a common phenomenon that boys and girls involved in sex before marriage. The fantasy of sexual orientation is become changing from time to time as like evolution of desire.
She have great faith on you so she can able to shared her feeling rather to involved in extra marital affairs. The threesome sex with a girl in teen or just above has been shown in some of the porn movies. She might be exposed to this type of movies.
A article published in TOI July 24, 2-13 shows that “Docs worried about rising teen pregnancy, self-abortion in….”. Teen pregnancies in …up by 50%. This reflects that teen girls are involved in sex before coming to legal age or unwanted pregnancy. In this case if you find someone who might be in risk then you can save her by protected sex. By doing this you can protect your wife from indulging sex outside and the girl who is under risk for pregnancy. By doing this you can teach the teen about the sex as like a sex teacher so that this knowledge will help her in future when she will mature enough to deciding partner for sex on later part of life.
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