I am confused about the age of the girl, I should marry.
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Hello AA team,
I am 29 years old and I want serious advice. I have never spoken to any female in my life. It is because I fear to do so. I have built up my career very well and my parents think that I should get married within a year or so.
I am confused if I want to marry, then what should be the age of a girl? I mean from 18 to 25. I am asking this because of following reasons:
1. One of my friend says that, if you marry a 17 or 20 year old girl, than you can have great sex. But as you get older say 40, your wife will be 28 and she will surely look for other guys because you won’t be able to satisfy her with sex.
2. Another friend says, marry a 23 to 26 year old girl, because she is matured hence my life will be good. But, at the same time this girl will have more sex than 18 years old girl and hence I may not be satisfy her needs.
I have questions;
1. Of what age girl, should I marry ? from 17 to 26 ?
2. Is there any sex difference between these ages ?
3. What, if I fail to give her a happy sexual life ?
I am asking this, because I never have touched or talked with any girl. Help me. Sorry for long typing.
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See, first of all, we begin with one question and I want you to ask this question to yourself i.e. do YOU wanna marry? I mean its okay that your parents want you to get married and all that stuff but then do you wish the same? If no, then tell them bluntly that you’re not in a zone to get married. There is no point in getting married with even a little hitch in mind. That is not really good I’ll tell you!
Now if you too wish the same then I would proceed further and would say that you’re a fool! Ask me why? That is because you ask others to decide for you! Don’t you have that much of confidence in yourself then why are you getting married? You should be confident enough to take care of these things on your own! You’re not a boy anymore, you are a man now! You’re grown up, but if I may say so, not mentally!
I wanna know the reason behind you not speaking to girls! Are they gonna eat you up? Don’t be a stereotype Indian! Better if you look a bride of your age! Here you want a younger bride to not look for someone else to fulfil her demand and there you don’t even want to fulfil the demands of a mature partner! Then what the hell do you wanna do?
You want no sex! Maybe because of a low libido and you even want to marry be don’t wanna fuck your wife! So what do you wanna do? Do you want her to be a nun all her life? Why are you getting married then? Don’t get married if you want no sex!
Think over it!
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Indiaguy, What made you think that you would fail to provide enough sexual satisfaction? All these butterflies you are having in your pit of stomach are pure anxiety and are purely baseless.
To begin with always keep in mind that sex is only a part of marriage.Its not a entire life only . May be most important but still only a part.
So all your fears are baseless. Only thing is you should find the girl who will love you the way you are. No doubt intitially sex is the major part of sex life. But later only mere memories of the best days spent together, growing old. getting mature with experiences, fun enjoyed together takes priority .
Ideally as per my opinion you are not that much in age that you should be worried at all. And again as per me you should marry a girl Oscar255 So 26 would be ideal for you . Best of luck!