I had sex with my 55 year old maid. Now she is blackmailing me. Help!
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Our maid who is 55 years old has been working with us for more than 10 years. A few months back, her husband died of surgery failure. During that time, my mom used to send me with her to the hospital for her husband’s check up. But the surgery was unsuccessful and he died.
During that time, I stayed with her most of the time and we got very close to each other. We even had sex before her husband’s death.
She again asked me for sex after her husband’s death. She used to ask my mom to send me to take me to her home and my mom would agree. She would then have sex with me in a corner while her daughters were watching us.
She has 4 daughters. Two of them are married. The other 2 are twins. These 2 daughters would masturbate looking at us. They both are about my age (22).
My maid still continues having sex with me. She locks me in the kitchen and we secretly have sex. But now she wants me to marry one of her daughters. She is threatening me that if I don’t marry her daughter she will tell my parents.
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What is in your mind? Whether you want to continue the affairs or not? Is there any deal with her before consensual sex?
If you are not agree to continue with this condition then tell her straight forward deny her. This action may have various reaction 1. she may tell your parents but you have to convince your parents about innocence. Your parents definitely support you rather than the maid. 2. She may expose the recordings. You should prepare your counter protection tool. 3. She may not allow you for further sex. As she is fucking you in-front of her daughters, so you have to target one of her daughter in her absence. Neither of them will deny you as you are the satisfies of their mother. They may see you as like their father.
There are instances in which female are having sex in a condition to marry their daughter or the male attracted towards the daughter, which results with marriage. This happens when both mother and daughter maintaining very close relation.
Your maids knows very well that she is facing problem for her daughter’s marriage. If she complete all the marriage in this fashion then her money and resources will not be spent. Afterall she is a mother and she is taking care of her children.
You have to decide by considering morality, selfishness, dignity, social status etc.
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Stop this nonsense right now. You are young, inexperienced and made a mistake. It’s okay to admit the mistake. You still have time to rectify it. Don’t pay your life as the price to hide the mistake. Don’t fell in the evil clutches of that maid and their children. They seems like criminals to me. Marrying her daughter will only make things worse. You’ll become her sex slave for your entire life.
Always remember, sex is not the most important thing in life. Your family and their pride comes first. If you’re in real love with someone it’s okay. You can marry her. But this is against your will. They are blackmailing you. So you can go for an official complaint against them in police. They can help you to retrieve the tapes.
First talk to your parents. Everyone in this age does make mistakes. You still can work this out.