My bhabhi has given birth to my child. What to do?
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I am Abdul. My age is 22 and I am from Mumbai. I have 6 members in my family. My dad he is 48 years, my stepmom is 33, elder brother is 26. My brother’s son is 5 years old and my bhabhi is 26 years. Her figure is 36,32,36
I and my bhabi have been having a relationship since last 3 years. 2 years back, she got pregnant by me. We did have an abortion because at that time my brother was not there in Mumbai for 6 months.
But now my bhabhi has my baby.
What to do? Do you have any suggestions?
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Illegal relation gives only pain to legal people who are the relatives of those cheaters.
I have sympathy with Your poor Bother and abhorrence for you both,
It Seems you want to say that she is pregnant now, So If it is true then either she have to abort then your husband will get know or she will give birth to your child and then it may be hide this way but she have to sex with your bother once at least during this period. But such relation will not be hide from your bother because you both will not stop it now and the day is not so far when you both will caught red handed,
And then your brother will doubt about both the kids (even 5 year kid is your bother’s son)… the situation will be really dramatic,.
Well what you will do now, let us know because we want to know about your decision.
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This seems to be some confusion, according to other answers you have already received. My understanding is this: two years ago your sister-in-law had to abort a child because there was no possibility that she could pass off a new baby as her husband’s. This was because he was out of the country at the crucial time when she conceived, and it would have been obvious that someone else fathered the child.
Subsequent to this, with a continuation of your affair with her, she again got pregnant, and this time, her husband was also around, so she could easily pass off any new child as his. If I have got my facts straight so far, then it raises one really obvious question: how do you know that this new baby is yours? If she is having sex with both her husband and you, at the same time during the same timeframe, either one of you could have introduced the sperm fertilised her eggs the only way to be certain as to who the real daddy’s would be to have a DNA test. Even suggesting this would have to raise doubts in your brother’s mind as to what his wife might have been getting up to. It probably wouldn’t occur to him that his own brother is the snake in the grass.
Human nature being what it is, people get themselves involved in affairs with other family members, in-laws, blood relations, all kinds of things. This is really premeditated, but it happens. I could spend useless time castigating you and your sister-in-law for the things you are doing, but it’s not my job to tell you how to behave, and each of us has to decide on what we find acceptable and what we don’t. So, let’s stick to the practicalities here, leave the moralising for others, who will no doubt, subject you to sensual and abuse.
Regardless of who the real father is, if you wish to preserve harmony within your family, you will do and say nothing at all. You can be a loving uncle to the child, and that is all. Apart from anything else, you don’t want to hurt yourself, your brother, your sister-in-law, or the innocent in all this, the little baby. The baby is the real victim in all this, as he or she has been brought into the world, and if the truth ever came out, rather than being loved, the baby would be hated by all, as the symbol of the trouble that has probably torn the family apart.
You may harbour secret paternal feelings towards this baby, but they will always have to remain secret unless you are determined on a path of destruction for all and sundry. If you care enough about your sister-in-law, you will not want to see her hurt, either emotionally or physically, and both are likely to happen if her husband finds out about her infidelity with you. Not only that, but your own health would be at risk. He is not unknown for one brother to kill another, for far less than what you and your sister-in-law have been doing, and presumably, continue to do.
In future, if you’re going to continue having sex with her, then either she has to use a proper method of contraception, or you do. She has been pregnant twice, and at least one of these pregnancies can be attributed to you, if not both of them. In addition to that, she also has a five-year-old child, and he would also become a victim if any of this comes out.
So, the simple and concise answer to your question is this: keep your mouth shut, firmly shut, and never even hint at alternatives reasons why your sister-in-law gave birth.
In England we have a saying that goes like this: “if you can’t be good, be careful!!!” I suggest you read that proverb, and take it to heart!!!
Salma