I have been reading AskAnjali Site for a few months now.

I am a 36 year old married woman with 2 kids aged 11 and 9. My husband is 40 years old. He recently suffered some losses in his small business so my home has been running on my salary for the last 7 months. I have been stressed due to financial difficulties and requested my boss to increase my salary and give me overtime. I work for a small private company.

Due to the continued stress and working more time every day, I shared more and more of my stress with my boss. In the evenings, only he and me are in office. He is 45 years old and is married. All of a sudden, my boss asked me to give him oral pleasure and begged me to cooperate with him as he is desparate for sex due to problems with his wife.

He wanted to keep it only at oral sex considering we both are married. He said he will take care of my financial needs and I should take care of his physical needs. I was really confused and shocked but he was very polite and requesting in his manner of asking.

After a few days of constant thinking and more discussions with him, on one hand I feel it may be a mutually beneficial arrangement but on the other hand I feel it will not be fair on my part to cheat my husband, I am in a huge dlalemma. My boss is really a respctful, good natured nice human being. In my 9 years of working with him, I have never experienced even a minute of misbehavior from him.

I have tried my best to change my job to get higher salary but not being a graduate seems to come in my way of getting a good job. I cannot afford to lose my current job and I am really stressed financially.

Just wanted to take some guidance/opinion from other women readers of this site. Please be compassionate and realistic in your replies.

Thank you.