Should I allow my wife to hug & kiss her college friend?
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Hi anjali mam & all friends,
Myself Dr Sahil 30 Years married to Nazia (26 Years). Recently during sexy role play my wife uttered the name of his college friend. After insisting her she told that she was having crush on him. After that we make a passionate sex & even since then we used to role play the same.
My wife just wanted to hug him & kiss him in real for once only. ( may be in front of me). Should i allow her to Kiss her college friend or not.I feel very much excited.
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Yes you can if you want. There is nothing wrong in fulfilling the dream of your wife, but Are you sure that things will be the same after this, will she be loyal and respectful to you? If ask you for more than a kiss or a hug will you be ready to fulfill that also? Are you sure that she will not do that on your back if you will not permit? before that you should ask her whether she will agree for a female friend of you to be kissed or fucked by you. If she agrees to that do that first. Then ask her how she feels? Marriage is a divine union of two people, its strength is not in sex, but in love, respect, trust and commitment to other partner.
Its better to have some fantasy, when you try to fulfill that it can be disastrous for both. Its easy to jump into a well, but difficult to come out of it. Choice is yours, because its your life.
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Can you guarantee that Your wife is not gonna kiss that colleague of hers after you forbid her? Nope!! If she wants to do it,she will do it anyway!! So,instead of putting restrictions on her,why not keep things open? If you are willing to let her kiss him or even has sex with him, there is no problem in it. Future is unpredictable. There are histories that even after a husband has tried his best to stop the wife to meet with her lover,she met him anyway,and then eloped with her lover!!! So,resistance is usually futile in such cases!! However,you can make her agree with some conditions,and come in terms with you.
The more you resist,the more it will persist!!!
Your wife’s honesty about feeling attracted to her colleague and confessing it to you is something that deserves respect!! She could have done it without telling you anything 😉