when we tried ‘doggy-style’ she enjoyed it initially, but now she complains of pain
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.My partner and I like to try new positions, but when we tried ‘doggy-style’ she enjoyed it initially, but now she complains of pain. Can you guide me on how I can provide her pleasure in this style?
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I am glad you are trying to push the limits and add some variety in your sex play. Anal sex is not as smooth as vaginal sex because the rectum is a lot tighter than the vagina and also is not naturally lubricated. Start slow and gentle and make sure your partner is amply relaxed. If she is tense, which is likely because of her past experience of pain, her muscles will clench up resulting in further constriction of the anus. You can start by massaging her, using tons of lube, and then use your fingers. Go much slower in anal sex than you would normally do in penile-vaginal sex. At all points ask your partner, how much depth of insertion is okay, how fast or slow should you go. Have patience. There are also many ways to have a pleasurable sex life.