Why do I CUM during my dreams without masturbating?
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I am very fond of masturbating. But now I don’t like to do it as I feel it affects my health and is also against some religious beliefs. I have often masturbated before sleeping.
Whenever I have a dream of hot girls, Bollywood actresses or anyone who I know personally, I cum. Then I wake up and proceed towards the toilet. Last night I just had some dream of such examples above. And again I did it. And also nowadays I think of sex every 5-10 minutes and that too more than 10 times.
Please help me to get rid of this. I need some serious help. Otherwise I would lose my career and many more things in life.
Help me people. … its an urgent PRIORITY of my life this time.
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Cumming without masturbating is due to buildup of semen in the testes. It is also called night fall. It is normal. But you are more concerned with masturbation as you have become addicted to it.
Masturbation is a healthy practice. But this comes with a proviso. Masturbate only when you are sexually aroused. Masturbation like other vices (drinking, smoking, drugs) can become addictive, if uncontrolled. If you need porn to masturbate then that is an addiction and is unhealthy. In a study conducted, it was noted that 95% of men and 89% of women masturbated at some time in their life.
Deciding what is normal is the difficult part. However if masturbation is interfering with your sleep or work or with relationships, where you prefer your hand to having a partner or you find it hard to have an erection, then you have a problem.
You should remember that the biological and genetic force behind sexual desire is to connect with others. Socializing reduces sexual tension. This in turn helps our bodies through exercise, meditation, better diet, yoga etc. Unfortunately, the opposite happens. We tend to stay indoors and shun meeting people when we are addicted to masturbation.
The frequency of masturbation is central to healthy masturbation. This depends on each individual. Too much, numbs the mind and body. Abstaining completely is also not recommended. It is believed that African tribes do not masturbate , but then they marry when they are young, which compensates for this.
So, for a healthy masturbation:
1. Do not do it to relieve tension. (Exam tension, work tension, difficulty to sleep etc).
2. Keep sufficient time to masturbate. Do not rush through it. Make it a process to enjoy, rather than a means to an end (ejaculation).
3. At times masturbate but do not ejaculate. This will help to delay ejaculation when you are in a relationship.
4. Masturbate only once or twice a week. This will give you confidence and renewed energy.
5. Frequent masturbation will make you crave for more of porn etc to satisfy the increase in craving. A viciuos circle.