Why Does She Do This?
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There’s this girl, whom I know since school. We were very good friends. It’s been three years that she has a boy friend. Three of us (including her boy friend) were great friends in college, but there were times when she used to hug my arm in public and repeatedly press her boobs against my arm and back. She often did this in public whenever we went out or both of us were alone, but not in front of her boyfriend. While talking she would press her warm body against mine and touch her thighs, knees and feet with mine. She never does this to anyone else other than her boyfriend.
Whenever I ask her, she says that she loves her boyfriend a lot. She never makes any further move towards me other than these physical contacts. I wonder what it all means.
Should I go further with her? Because she always ends up giving me an erection.
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“Because she always ends up giving me an erection”
The problem is with the way you think.
She is not giving you an erection. You are getting an erection when she is in physical contact with you.
See the difference?
So don’t project yourself onto her. Your erections are your body/minds reaction to a feminine touch.
Your description also tells me you don’t have any other girl friends who are pally with you. Because your friend is doing exactly any friend would do with a person who is comfortable and feels safe.
You should get a girlfriend of your own.
Your erections will be quite fruitful then 😉
The way you are thinking/going now, you will end up frustrated and resenting your friends happiness/relationship.
You will allow yourself to give in to negativity.
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hey there, hope you’re doing well. Your situation is kind of confusing if you may understand, on one side, her avoiding to hangout with you and low initiation for convo. is an easy giveaway for not being interested. On the other hand, you describing about how your conversations actually goes, is a “green light” in my opinion. But I do think you should focus on whether is she even right for you or not, because it clearly seems you like hanging out and you might be an extrovert, but she might not be. At the end of the day, it’s about how you both feel about each other. In my opinion, you should clear things out asap, so you could deal with the repercussions, if there are any. If you want to vent a little more, you can text, I’ll be happy to talk to you. Hope it helps.
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Bro ask her again to go on a date with you, and think of a place or activity that will definitely make her want to go out with you, if she refuses then maybe she isn’t interested in you in that way and just wants to have you as a friend