I am married and alone. Should I cheat?
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Hey All,
I am recently married and due to professional reasons we live in different countries. The next time I see her would be in August. I am unable to control my sexual desires and the evil mind is making me to take the wrong routes. May be hookup with a co-worker or some random sexcapades.
I don’t want to cheat her also am not sure if this is a right way to satisfy my needs.
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If you do not want to cheat her then it is in your hand not to cheat her and for that, self-control is the only way. You can rely on masturbation until you meet her. If possible then try to stay together where you are living if not possible then there is no way except masturbation.
I suppose, she equally frustration for not getting sex like you but she would not cheat you. Since you are leaving away from her, you may consider safe sex like with coworker but it should be only sexual relationship and everything should be clear within both of you.
Human body needs sex but what you are trying to do is something, which can disturb your married life. Take a final decision keeping reality in your mind that you are married and you have responsibility not to make your married life suffer on your account.