My Girlfriend cheated me. Why do I fantasize that she is cheating me again?
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My Girlfriend and I are in relationship for past 5 years. Two years ago she cheated on me.
She had a casual relationship with her colleague which was little physical too. When I got to know about it, she admitted it and promised me that this will never happen again. Everything became normal.
Since then I am having a fantasy of my girlfriend cheating on me. This makes me horny and I masturbate thinking about it.
Will this affect my married life if I am getting married to her.
How can I overcome this fantasy?
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I hope a year down the line if you are married to her you don’t post something like ‘My wife (present GF) is cheating on me, what to do now’ ? If the thought of your GF cheating makes you horny then WELCOME TO THE CUCKOLDs CLUB !
Its still not clear to me from your question that whether you like your GF cheating on you or you don’t like it ? Get your preferences straight and if you’re like me and majority of the people who values loyalty more than anything then back out of this marriage, you still have a chance.
BTW, what do you mean by ‘If I’m getting married to her’? Either you will marry her or you won’t, why are you so confused? If you still marry your GF then don’t cry if she cheats you again, you’ll be the only one to be blamed.
Remember two of the most important facts of life:
1. ONCE A CHEATER ALWAYS A CHEATER
2. CHEATER REPENTS GETTING CAUGHT AND NOT CHEATING ON THEIR PARTNER
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Does it excite you only till the point where you masturbate and cum? Do you feel guilty about it later? If it’s an yes, I think you need to deviate your mind from these thoughts and focus on yourself.
Do you want her to fuck her same colleague or any other guy or is this just going to be your fantasy? Will you be really happy if someone fucks her? Are you sure about this?
If you are fine with her cheating on you, I don’t see any problem in your marriage.
But incase you aren’t fine with it, do you believe that your girlfriend had changed now? Have you tried identifying the root cause of her straying away from you and corrected it?
You’ll get to hear that “Once a cheater, always a cheater”, but No!! You know your girl better than any other person giving you an advice. So, if you believe that she’s changed now, I don’t think there should be anything to fear either.
Regards,